I'm so nervous

[johntofva]

LOL............This may end up being one of the funnier threads on here...........What ever happends.. good luck to you.

[dattia]

Estrogen enriched? I had to laugh at that one myself. Much as I hate to admit it, I agree with Tulsa at this point. You've made the call and left a message. She knows you are interested.

[Firewire]

Wow, the trials and tribulations of dating!

[dattia]

I'm glad that I'm married....I don't think I could survive dating again. I've got butterflies in my stomach, and I'm not even involved. Good Luck Lucent.

[slotter]

Good luck Lucent! I agree with D above, dating is a LOT of work, and effort. (Yes, fun, too...) Sure wouldn't want to do that again, though!

[clau]

DO NOT CALL BACK!

Regardless of what any estrogen enriched users may tell you.

As an estrogen enriched user I have to say that I whole heartedly agree that he should NOT call back! He's right - that would make him a psycho stalker!!

[Sid]

Technically to be a psycho stalker you need at least 1 restraining order.



if she doesnt return your call after a couple of days.. just go over to her house and set her house on fire... its the best way honest

ok ok maybe if you think its worth it call her after a week just to say hello.... and leave it at that... you mentioned you had met online? i assume you have her email.. maybe after a week you send her an email and leave it at that..

house burning later..

[Tony Junior]

A lot of interesting advice here, Lucent. I'd wait a bit to see if she returns your call.

Then again, there is also the old saying, "A man chases a woman until she catches him."

[Mike]

Did you hear her voice on the voicemail, or was it just a standard one?? Don't want to put any more demons in that noggin of yours, but you might have called a wrong number... One time, I went out with a girl, called her up after and left a message - no response. Called again and this time spoke to her mum...no call back. Oh well I thought. Bumped into her six months later and it turned out she'd lost my number, so couldn't call back! Still, I probably wouldn't have met my lovely wife, who is ten times better! Oops, wrong smiley -

[lucentenigma]

yea im sure it was the right number



I'm gonna take Sids advice and if I don't hear anything email next week.

The thing is, when she came over wednesday all of a sudden after 2 hours she was like "I gotta leave, I forgot that I had to meet a girl friend of mine" Do you want me to come back in about an hour ?" Of course I say yes, but in my head I'm like yeah right shes ditching out on me and isn't coming back, I was pretty sad. Well I get a call that night about 1 1/2 later, its her "shes like im standing on your front porch" Woot! she came back! Thats when I knew I had to make a move, I mean she could have just left and never seen me again. Anyways because of that I'm thinking she likes me but is just busy working or something.

[DrDark]

Lucentenigma, did you tell her about PachiTalk?

[lucentenigma]

nah, I kept my computer off and did not mention it...

[Mike]

Sounds like you're in - why would she have come back otherwise? Much easier to have not come back if she wasn't interested or even if she wasn't sure - to come back like that shows she likes ya

[DrDark]

Good thinking. You would be sunk for sure if she were to read this forum

[Thomas P.]

Technically to be a psycho stalker you need at least 1 restraining order.



if she doesnt return your call after a couple of days.. just go over to her house and set her house on fire... its the best way honest

ok ok maybe if you think its worth it call her after a week just to say hello.... and leave it at that... you mentioned you had met online? i assume you have her email.. maybe after a week you send her an email and leave it at that..

house burning later..

I was hoping Sid would chime in on this one...
And with the sound advice that we've come to expect !

I Think your IN Lucent !!! Just Chill... Be Yourself, you'll be fine. But, I do agree, if you told her about this place and she visited, this all may change for you.

[lucentenigma]

that would be something wouldn't it? she happened to log on to pachitalk and was reading the thread...

[Sid]

No worries Buddy I got the Matches!!!

[sacpinplayer]

yea im sure it was the right number



IWell I get a call that night about 1 1/2 later, its her "shes like im standing on your front porch" Woot! she came back! Thats when I knew I had to make a move, I mean she could have just left and never seen me again. Anyways because of that I'm thinking she likes me but is just busy working or something.

OK, now we have the rest of the story. I'd say it's looking pretty good for you, Lucent. Of course, there's always the possibility she was incredibly bored and hung out with you for the lack of anything else to do.

Nah......she never would have come back if she wasn't enjoying your company.

Wait a bit and see if she calls. If you have her email address, you could always try sending one of those Hallmark.com e-cards to her.

[drcrippen324]

Wooohooo she came back a second time in one nite you got no worrys buddy just sit back enjoy and take my look at life

take it slow take it easy
if its easy take it twice

always worked so far

[Lazarus]

So if something happens with this girl and she gets here to pachitalk do we get to use this thread for blackmail?