I'm so nervous

[Tony Junior]

Wow, very nice! Looking forward to how the evening went.

Lucky guy!

[Thomas P.]

Vey Nice Lucent ! BEAUTIFUL
All good advice above ... Be nice, attatentave and genuinly interisted in what she says.. you'll be fine..she IS nearvous to..
Keep us all posted. Good Luck !

[lucentenigma]

Part 2:

Everything went really well. My nervousness disappeared pretty quicky. We played with my pachi machine and ordered chinese take out, drank beer. I minded my manners, well kinda, I kept it PG-13. She told me to call her anytime and she would love to go out with me again or just hang out! Now I'm trying to do the right thing and wait 3 days before calling so I don't seem 2 eager. Or is it 2 days? hmmmm

[Lazarus]

Did you show here your pets?

[dattia]

I'm glad you had a good time....not sure about the waiting period though

[lucentenigma]

no maybe next time though as she is an animal lover....

[Tulsa]

Wait through the weekend as she probably already has plans and you certainly want her to think you did too. Who knows, you may. Then call her, Sunday night at the earliest and then...

Eh.. what do I know, I'm married.


Go with your gut from here on out. Just have a good time!

[sacpinplayer]

Part 2:

Everything went really well. My nervousness disappeared pretty quicky. We played with my pachi machine and ordered chinese take out, drank beer. I minded my manners, well kinda, I kept it PG-13. She told me to call her anytime and she would love to go out with me again or just hang out! Now I'm trying to do the right thing and wait 3 days before calling so I don't seem 2 eager. Or is it 2 days? hmmmm

Glad you had a good time. I'd forget about waiting before calling her. Give her a call and let her know how much you enjoyed the evening and her company. Suggest doing something this weekend. Then keep us posted!

[luckydog]

He who hesitates is lost

[drcrippen324]

dont wait too long looking as good as she dose someone mighte snatch her up this weekend

[lucentenigma]

thats what my gut says, shes a catch and I don't want to let her get away that easy, maybe I'll just call to say hello, I had a great time, ect. Then call back later to ask her out.....

[Tulsa]

I believe that feeling is emanating from a bit lower than your gut!

[clau]

I wouldn't wait. You're going to give her 3 days to wonder what's wrong with her, you, or what other relationships you have going on (we have a habit of overthinking these things). If you really enjoyed her company let her know as soon as possible. Honesty is great and if she enjoyed your company she will feel great that you called her.

Good Luck with whatever you decide!

[luckydog]

There you go!!!!

A woman's point of view

[lucentenigma]

ok I could not stand it anymore, trying to be a tough guy and waiting.. so I called her and what do I get? voicemail , anyways I left a message...she works as a waitress so maybe shes at work... now I get to worry whats wrong with me till she calls me back *sigh* I think I shouldn't worry we did a lot of "smooching" and hung out till about 2am, she seemed really into me...

[drcrippen324]

hey let me warn you buddy enjoy the sport of the chase enjoy the fruites of your labor in the capture but after that the hunter becomes the hunted so be careful of the entrapment

[Tulsa]

Should've waited....

Now you're stuck in that OMG what if mode...

The endless loop of your own mind attacking you with evil thoughts of ineptitide.


I tried to save you from this...

[lucentenigma]

I know it Tulsa! arggghhhh, and I can't call back cause then Im a pyscho stalker

[Tulsa]

DO NOT CALL BACK!

Regardless of what any estrogen enriched users may tell you.

[drcrippen324]

agree with tulsa there DONT CALL BACK if she replies shes a shure fire bet if she dont it wasent ment to be and you been saved from alot of hastle